It’s got to be one of the most pressing questions a parent could have about gaming aside from whether or not violent gaming makes violent gamers. People generally have an opinion about how much gaming is too much. Unfortunately, that’s I can really give you because the research doesn’t suggest that the time spent gaming is how you determine if a gamer is “addicted”. The reasons why they game are much more important. That’s a topic for another post. The important thing is that we don’t demonize gaming, because it has a lot to offer us in the right quantities.
Before I give an opinion on this, let’s ask another important question. Are you really talking about video games or are you talking about total screen time between gaming, YouTube, social media and anything else we do on our devices and computers. It’s very common for parents to treat the two activities as one in the same.
While the issue of overall screen time is a real one, we need to separate gaming from general screen time. That’s because using social media and consuming visual media is embedded into our daily culture. Screens give us easier access to these things, and the research suggests that our impulse control and concentration suffer because of it. It gets worse when we are talking about teenagers who are still growing key parts of their brain in charge of higher order thinking such as decision making and reasoning.
Gaming is different to screens because it has its own unique culture. It is a community rich with nuance and complex social interactions that can either resemble competitive sport or a fantasy novel. I’m going to focus on gaming specifically because while general screen time and gaming are very close cousins in terms of how the brain reacts to them, the motivation to play games are unique.
“There is no magic number. However….”
I think I can help you get an answer that makes sense. I am a teacher, a parent and among other things, a gamer. I feel that my unique perspective on this issue gives me great insight on how gaming fits as a hobby into our week. I also know how the line can quickly blur and that hobby can turn into a habit. You might be interested to know that Oxford University believes that 1 hour of gaming every day is better than no gaming at all when we discuss personal well-being and mental health. The Australian average daily gaming time in 2016 was 145min each day for 15-24 year old boys, and nearly 90min per day across all ages.
In my experience, the national average of 2 hours and 15 minutes per day is already at risk of having a negative impact on our gamer because If the games are being played every day and for long enough, there is an opportunity cost. You’re going to miss out on things if it’s a daily practice. It might be exercise, it might be socializing, it might be homework. If you want to back up each day of gaming with another day of gaming, it looks a lot less like a hobby and more like a habit. Ideally, I believe that our gamers should max out at about an average of 12 hours per week. I don’t think that it’s a big deal if that time increases a little. I think the important thing is to not play every day. That way, there is time for other stuff, and the length of the gaming session can afford to be a bit longer so that our gamer can still feel satisfied.
Basically, I think gamers should play for a couple of hours in a session, but not play daily. That way, there is room for everything else that is important or interesting in your life.
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